Of all the pleasures in the world nothing satisfies as much a good meal does.And its the only thing that satisfies every time,I have never been bored of food,and neither can anyone deny.For some,food is god,for some a pleasure,for some a break,for some energy and for me its all of the mentioned.I can say food is the perfect example of all branches of science considering Indian cooking everything has a reason for every ingredient to the process of cooking.I remember reading about Napoleon Bonaparte announcing prize for food preservation(http://foodpreservation.about.com/od/Canning/a/From-Napoleon-To-Mason-Jars-The-Brief-History-Of-Canning-Food.htm)for it is believed that more soldiers died of hunger than injuries,when I was talking about this to my mom,she smiled,and told me that,If Napoleon had been born in India,he wouldn't have been a fool to announce such a reward and his soldiers could have easily survived on dry pickles and dry fishes.There are so many complex science behind every food that is cooked in our house only that we don't realize or may be we don't have time to think about or we are just lazy to even think about it.Such is the speciality of food that it has all the fundamental elements that keeps the world going,apart from science,it too has an emotional side.
I keep the scientifical fact of food with me,not everyone is interested in it.But,food also plays a vital role keeping up the relationships.A family that sits together for one meal a day is definitely a happy family.All those,sharing,serving,passing,talking has a bonding value that could keep every family bonded for years.I know of a family of small kids to grandparents, that sit together for breakfast and grand father is the one who looks forward for the get together breakfast,and he gets all ready only to have breakfast with the family,and the rest of the day he doesn't get to see all of his family members for their varied schedule.
For me Food is equally synonymous with friends,for all those bonding that I have with my friends is also somewhere connected with the food.Right from my school days to till to the day,there has always been time for us to share food,though not more often as we used to do in school days.Sharing was so important for us that me and some other friends made sure that our parents don't send non vegetarian dishes as we didn't wanna lose some of our strict vegetarian friends.And the sharing still goes on exchanging boxes.And we are proud of sharing at eateries that everyone gets to taste everything on the table.Sharing food is something that I wouldn't miss out with my friends.
An angry man is usually a hungry man,appease the apettite of the angry man and he will a very good friend of you.I myself have noticed this,I'm easily provoked when I'm hungry.Someone said Hunger is the source of all evil,but I say Food is the solution for all evils.
And now comes the most sensitive part of food,of all the charity,giving food is considered the superior.If you feed some one, he will have the energy to acquire anything. In our vedic texts more importance is given for food,its believed food is Brahma, from food all the creatures are born and by food they live,and after having departed,into food again they enter.Feeding the needy has always made me content,which I do only once a year and that too not for specific occasion,it just happens.A wise friend of mine suggested instead of feeding them once a year,get them a bag of rice and they will be happy for more than one time.
I would say
#if you are really upset about something in life,try enjoying the meal wholeheartedly,right from the care and love that mom has taken to prepare to the same love and joy it is served.
#.And if you don't know what you are upset about,take a friend for a meal and you will realize there is nothing to be upset about.
#Finally,if you are upset about life itself,try giving food/food grain in charity and you will understand how blessed you are.And this formula has never failed me!